Durex Play Slim Vibrator Sex Toy Waterproof 8 Vibrations

This vibrator gets rid of buttons altogether and is instead controlled completely by the way you squeeze it. Ordering your first vibrator can be intimidating — there are so many shapes , sizes, and materials to choose from. If you are unsure where to start, we’ve created a list of vibrators to fit every beginner’s needs. The top of the toy is great for precise clitoral stimulation, while the wider end provides more general vibration to the vulva. As the Pom is small and quiet, it’s perfect for either solo or partner play. I’ve only experienced the former given the current circumstances, but its lack of noise gave me peace of mind as I don’t live alone.

The Lelo LYLA 2 is a bullet vibrator that comes with a wireless remote. It’s pretty much the Cadillac of bullet vibrators if you’re into that sort of thing. This vibrating prostate massager is specifically designed to provide targeted stimulation to the prostate and perineum, giving you all the sensations you need to reach new heights of pleasure.

If you live in a place with a removable shower head, it’s a great option for a discreet vibrator. Many people find the sensation of the pressurized water on their genitals pleasurable, and being in the bath or shower means you’re already in a space where you’re unlikely to be interrupted. If you don’t have a moveable shower head, but do have a bathtub, you can try lying on your back and tilting your hips into the stream from the faucet. Here’s yet another option, one that you can find at drug stores or big box stores (places like Target). They are generally made of plastic, made to plug in to an outlet, and are for external use only.

As SELF previously reported, sex toys can pass along STIs, so safer sex practices apply here. If you’re using a sex toy with someone outside of a sexually monogamous partnership, put a condom over your toy. Condoms are also key if you want to use a toy for both vaginal and anal stimulation (which you can do as long as the toy is safe for anal, a.k.a. it has a flared base). With that being said, each clit is as unique as a snowflake and should be treated as such, according to Lexington, Kentucky-based marriage and family therapist Juliana Hauser, PhD. “Discover if your glans (clitoral tip) likes light vibration or a stronger speed vibrators,” she says.

The Vibration Body Massager app turns your phone into a customizable personal massager, offering a variety of vibration patterns to help you relax and unwind. Strong Vibrator – Massager gives you an opportunity to customize your massage experience by choosing from various vibration patterns and intensities. Personally, I find it regrettable that a greater number of consumer scholars do not tackle such “sexy” subject matters.

While this vibrator’s small size can make getting a grip on it a little tough, the button is easy to find and it has ten vibe settings. There are many quiet vibrators to choose from, so we asked sex experts about their favorites and analyzed a ton of reviews online to see which ones are the best. The vibrators on this list stay quiet and, in some cases, come cleverly disguised as much more run-of-the-mill necessities. The majority of them are made of silicone, though, so remember — if you’re using lube, only go with water-based options, as others can degrade the silicone.

I totally get that $200 is a lot for a sex toy you might not like until you try it. Its Pro 2 model offers a similar clitoral stimulation to the Womanizer, but for much less. You don’t get all of the same features as you would with the Womanizer Premium (like the autopilot or Smart Silence features), but at that price, I wouldn’t expect them.